Therapies and sessions
Relational Fengshui
Relational Feng Shui is an Integrative Holistic Sex Therapy, a grounded spiritual journey toward clarity, integrity, and deeply loving relationships
Nothing in life is more challenging than the process of being emotionally and sexually intimate with another human being. I honor you for taking the first step in significantly improving your relationship, whether with yourself or with your significant other.
You will learn the importance of healthy self-esteem, honoring your feelings, and communicating effectively.
THE UNITY OF KNOWLEDGE AND PRACTICE
Knowledge motivates action, and practice implies the execution of knowledge. We are all products of a society that creates artificial needs — the economy depends on them. It either profanes or medicalizes sexuality, creating a divide between the body and the mind. It views sex in terms of the number of partners, orgasms, and dysfunctions.
During sessions, I take people at their word, but I also allow myself to look beyond the words, into the spaces and energies. More than two decades of studying Ancient Sexual Practices, along with my personal spiritual practice, enable me to identify the patterns where individuals and couples get stuck due to (often unconscious) incoherences, fragmentations, and internal resistances.
I don't just listen; I connect on a much deeper level to encourage you to explore and get in touch with your unique individual and relational needs and desires — and to learn how to meet them within genuine relationships. If you're feeling stuck in life and need guidance, get in touch.
Relational Feng Shui is here to help elevate your relationship and sex life. Emotional, psychological, and sexual issues are inseparable, which is why Relational Feng Shui addresses them all.
It draws from Cross-Cultural Studies, Daoist & Sri Vidya Tantra, as well as trauma work, ancestral healing, recovery, and the latest discoveries in neurobiology. Its aim is to free individuals and couples from the constraints of psychological patriarchy, so we can learn to embody true intimacy.
Individual Zoom Therapy (60 min) 🗝 80€
Package of 5 Therapies (5×60 min) 🗝 300€ (60€ per session)
More information and reservations: espelia.santos@gmail.com
Relational Fengshui will help you identify the projections you place onto your intimate partner and those close to you, so you can choose to relate in a healthier way
❈ For couples
Online talk therapies which are principally introducing the topic of healing sex. Relational fengshui addresses more than psychological and physical sexual problems; it searches for an integrative perspective as well as offers solutions to transform your relationship to a more connected and fulfilling unit. You are both 100% responsible for who you are in your relationship. Your task is to learn how to respond in the present moment, not from past programmings.
I am here to help you deal with past traumas, conditionings and unprocessed feelings. I will help you free your voices so you can gradually speak about your needs and wants in a respectful and cherishing manner as well as establish healthy boundaries and create agreements which will invigorate and nourish your relationship on many levels..
❈ For individuals
Working with women
Dear Woman it is time to set your voice, your family, and future generations free.
I am here to support you in healing your individual as well as ancestral sexual traumas through counseling. Together we will transform numbness into pleasure by initiating your body- your sacred vessel- to be ready to embrace sacred sexuality for health and harmony.
I offer support to your healing with vocal purifications, mantras and sacred chants.
❈ For individuals
Working with men
I offer one on one sessions where I'm teaching and empowering men in daring to become more intimate and connected beings. You won't see me hiding behind professional neutrality. I am authentic, transparent, I dare to tell the truth, I'm self- disclosing, I practice what I preach- I'M WITH YOU.
A crucial aspect of working with me is our unique therapeutic relationship. From time to time, you will have emotional reactions to me. When these reactions happen, don't be embarrased or feel that you are doing something wrong. Talk to me about them. This will enhance the therapy process and healing.
Each person is unique; I am here to support you in exploring your beliefs which might be impeding you from living from your own sexual sovereignty. I will help you come into connection with your natural sexual energy and provide you guidance on your own healing sexuality journey.
🍬map out your projections and partner choices
🍬acquire orgasmic mastery
🍬enjoy more pleasure
🍬end premature ejaculation
🍬become a desirable man
🍬learn about authentic tantra
🍬learn to orgasm without ejaculation
🍬expand techniques for erotic engagement
🍬get in touch with your prostate
People in stressful, sex-deprived relationships tend to become ill more frequently, while those in loving, supportive relationships are healthier and live longer
