Špela Gornik

 Conscious Sexuality Educator and Relational Therapist

The year 2025 marks 27 years since I began my tantric quest. It all started with books and scriptures, which led me to embark on a journey to live the questions that remained unanswered by both society at large and by universities and spiritual masters.

Before completing my university studies in the Department of Asian and African Studies in Ljubljana, I was already exploring the teachings of Ancient Chinese Sexual Classics (in both classical and modern Chinese) at universities in China (Hebei, Anhui, and Guangxi provinces), where I studied and worked.


For seven years, I worked as a translator for Chinese doctors who taught me a great deal about TCM (中医 Traditional Chinese Medicine) and yangsheng (养生, nourishing life) modalities.

I then continued my work as a sex therapist and certified sexological bodyworker in Hampstead, London, where I decided to expand my knowledge and skills by studying couples therapy.

In 2024, I had the opportunity to apply my expertise as a couples expert on the Slovenian edition of the TV show Married at First Sight, where I helped guide newlyweds through the challenges of building a strong foundation for their relationships.

Today, I serve the global community by offering online therapy and guidance for couples and individuals who are ready to build conscious relationships.